Trying to figure out if it’s a red flag or a pink flag that one of my bumble suitors has a habit of spitting on me when he talks. He also says “supposebly” instead of supposedly. That’s an easy fix, right? At what point can you correct someone? Can you really change someone that says supposebly? Am I okay with spittle spraying my face when we’re taking?
Irregardless, for all intensive purposes, supposebly when we conversate over sherbert it could just be a mute point.
An update – I turned my public bumble profile off a few weeks ago. I had been sidetracked by a regular bumbler. (See above, now known as “The Spitter” and he’s not Mr. Viagra.) He’s still around and just pulled the old leave behind.

Those aren’t my shoes. (He didn’t leave shoeless, he changed for work into another pair. Although if he did leave shoeless, that would be the most obvious and intentional leave behind ever! lol) Could shoes be a gateway leave behind? What’s next – a toothbrush? “Imma just leave a toothbrush here.” A drawer? What happens if he decides to have a where is this thing going conversation? (I drunkenly did that with my favorite bumblee a while back. That’s a good way to get ghosted.)
Irregardless, I turned my profile back on yesterday. Subconsciously I must be telling myself that spitting and supposebly are not okay with me.
I love you, Caroline. 😃
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